Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Let those tears fall...

I was blogwalking this morning, browsing blog page to blog page....till I stopped at a page. (don't feel like mentioning who..) I can't help feeling sad..and feel like hugging her. She wrote about the loss of her brother in a fire. It must be a very painful ordeal for her and the rest of her family at this time of trial.

I remember losing a sister many years ago. She was born a paralytic. It is not easy to care for someone that is born abnormal. I can't recall how many sleepless night we gotta endure...worrying about her. At times mom and I would be a bit paranoid! Loving her so much yet thinking the worst at the same time. Worrying whether she's cold, hungry or sick..or maybe need a diaper change.

She needed constant care and supervision at all times..and that makes me my sister's keeper.
Many nights, i would try to talk to her, to reach out to her but only find it frustrating. My sister can barely talk...very few words and silence. It was really heartbreaking.

You have no idea how tired it was to care for special person like my sister. Now she's gone...her memories still lingers in my heart. No one can ever replace her.
For those who lost someone today....let's join our hearts together and pray for our loving ones.
Let those tears fall...but keep the memory intact in our hearts.

(My sister, I will always love you.... - your little phoenix @ Honeybuzz)

7 comments:

Mama Mia said...

May their souls rest in peace.Amen

AngeL BeaR said...

i know how it feels. my dad died due to brain cancer in 2001. Yesterday is his death anniversarry. I still miss him a lot...even misses him more as my brother's wedding day is approaching near. Wish he is here to share the happiness with us. *hugs*

Unknown said...

Pray for their soul..

Lee said...

Hello Honeybuzz, regret read of your sister.
She is now in a better place and in normal self.
We will grieve not, rather find strength in what remains behind.
Best regards, Lee.

Unknown said...

very touching. let's pray together for others

Galaxy6139 said...

Share with you...

The sentiment between brothers or sisters is very beautiful and respectable...

I also have a story with my brother... would like to share with you

http://galaxy6139.blogspot.com/2009/09/ngay-3-so-9-day-of-3-no-9.html

Unknown said...

hi, honey. saya baru tahu kalo kamu punya adik yg sudah tiada. saya yakin dia sdh tenang di alam sana. bermain bersama para bidadari.